Hypoxia and Medicine

My baby died 7 month gestation of anoxia intrauterine, can u help us understan what could have went wrong help

anoxia intrauterine means not having enough oxygen but i cannot understand, everything was going fine all of a sudden the baby stopped moving inside the womb. This has us very stressed and frustrated, we were waiting for this baby for eight years and now everything has gone down hill. If there is someone that can help us please tell us something, because even the umbilical cord was no wrapped around the babies neck, the baby was in perfect shape already. If there is a doctor out there or someone with some knowledge please help us.

Public Comments

1. you probably didn't gain enough weight or is it in your family history?
2. it can be he/her not healthy enough cause of you eating drug food,or smoking,you know,stuff like that,or it can be YOU not healthy enough,perhaps of disaster.
3. all i can say is awww.........
4. i see a lot of "you" focused answers. i wouldn't blame yourself. These things do happen. Try again and you will succeed. my ex-wife and i had the same thing happen. it's not rare and there was no medical cause found. it just happend. we tried again and success. if you are doing something unhealthy though you have to stop during pregnancy. you'll mess your kid up. A.D.D. all kinds of stuff. but the major loss your feeling is a biological reaction. you can't help it but know that physiolgically you will have that "post pardom depression" it's typicall in way early abortions. the mother feels a major "loss" its the femal biology running it's course ... if it's bad for a long time seek counciling. but other than that. stay focused on good things and you will get through it.
5. I can't imagine how devastated you must feel. Please know that, most likely, there was nothing you did that caused this nor is there anything you could have done to prevent it. There could have been issues with the umbilical cord, the placenta or any number of things in the way the baby was developing. You may never have a full answer. The most important thing is that you take the time to grieve the loss of your baby and find the support that you need.
6. I don't have an answer for you, I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry that happened. I hope you and your husband have support in your time of grief.